117 – 3 Common Mistakes Guys Make After A Relapse

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How you’re responding after a slip or a relapse can determine the long-term health of your recovery.

In this episode, I share 3 common mistakes I routinely made after relapses and what you can do to avoid them.

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116 – How To Deal With Pornographic Thoughts in Public

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We’ve all been there. Whether it’s at the mall, the grocery store, or even at church, we have these nagging lustful thoughts that come out of nowhere.

Because of our history of porn use, we seem wired to sexualize people in our path.

In this episode, Matt is joined by Scott from the Thursday night REV Group.

We discuss real strategies you can use to deal with this pattern and find freedom.

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115 – Warning: Matt Gets Fired Up

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In this episode, I go off the dome, and respond to critical feedback from two listeners.

Warning: I get fired up. 

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114 – Smart Phones, Smart TVs, and Whatever Comes Next

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I get a lot of questions these days about Smart Phones and Smart TVs.  Networked internet devices are the norm now. But they can also be a big threat to our sobriety.

In this episode, I share a powerful metaphor you can use when making decisions about smart devices and how they fit with your recovery goals.

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113 – Becoming the type of man that does not look at porn

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"Becoming the type of man that does not look at porn."On this week’s episode, I share an a-ha moment from a PFR listener. Jon shares how he’s gotten to 81 days porn and masturbation free by making daily investment building his character.

He writes, “I am inhabiting a place of becoming the type of man that does not look at porn. Instead of; practicing behaviors that keep me from looking at porn.”

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112 – Avoiding Failure

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Are you avoiding failure in your life? Are you trying to escape negative thoughts, feelings, or emotions?

This pattern of avoidance could be fueling your porn addiction and at the same time thwarting your recovery.

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111 – The Top 3 Lies Partners Believe with Hope Ray

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Hope Ray is back! In this episode, we discuss the top 3 lies that partners believe when their husbands or boyfriend’s struggle with porn.

Hope first joined us in episodes 70 and 74 of Pornfree Radio. She specializes in working with partners and couples who are healing from the effects of porn and sex addiction.

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110 – Do I have to hit rock bottom to recover?

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In this episode, I unpack the good and bad news about hitting rock bottom.

The bad news is few people will be able to porn free unless they have hit rock bottom.
But I also have some really good news…

I also answer two burning questions from listeners.

 

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109 – What we live for is more important than what we give up

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My inbox is full (again!) Time to answer your burning questions.

  • Are there any porn free sexual acts?
  • Do you have any advice or specific tips for those of us who wrestle with same-sex pornography?
  • How can I move forward with abstinent dating?
  • Help! I’ve been struggling to find a decent consequence for relapse.
  • Is it unreasonable for me to want to see my boyfriend’s phone?
  • What to do with extreme temptation?
  • And more!

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RELAPSEREVOLUTIONGROUPBonoREV group coaching is weekly group coaching for men. It’s confidential with high accountability. We meet through secure video conference.

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108 – 110 Days Porn Free While Studying For The Bar Exam

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In this episode, we open the Pornfree mail bag, read your letters and answer questions like:

  • Any suggestions for parents of someone who doesn’t seem to want to fight to be porn free?
  • Do you have any advice for a depressed, porn-addicted teenager?
  • How can a recovering porn addict can engage in good self care at different phases of life?
  • Is it normal to be scared to give up porn?
  • How should Christians think about participation in a 12-step program alongside their faith practice?

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RELAPSEREVOLUTIONGROUPBonoREV group coaching is weekly group coaching for men. It’s confidential with high accountability. We meet through secure video conference.

Each group is led personally by me. And I bring my experience, coaching and leading men for over 12 years on every call.

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